In a large bowl mix together the instant pudding and milk. Make pudding as directed on the box. You want it to set until nice and thick.
Fold in half the container of whipped topping. Reserving the remainder to spread as a topping later.
Rinse about 4-6 strawberries, dry them, with a knife remove the tops. Then them into slices. Set them aside.
Peel about 1 or 2 bananas and cut them into slices. Set them aside.
In a 8x8 or 9x13 dish add a few large spoonful of the pudding mixture. Smooth into a single layer.
Add a layer of vanilla or Nilla wafers. Then top with the fresh sliced strawberries and bananas.
Top with a few more spoonful of pudding mixture to repeat the layer one more time. Then add the final layer of pudding mixture and spread the remaining reserved whipped topping.
Sprinkle with the strawberry crunch topping and top with 9 -15 vanilla wafers.
Cover and seal well with plastic wrap. Place in the refrigerator and chill for at least 3 hours. I prefer overnight for the vanilla wafers to be extra soft.
When ready to serve remove from the fridge and top with fresh strawberries and banana slices. Enjoy.